This methodology aims in regulating the parameters of demand response management (DRM) to limit the usage of consumer energy. Therefore, this will increase the stability and minimizes the cost of generation. Synchronized optimization of IoT based distributed generation (DG) parameters with DRM programs ensure the trapping of the obtainable power and maintain the welfare maximization. Comprehensive cases are taken into consideration by optimizing the DG parameters. This control proposes a strawberry (SBY) optimization to effectively manage the resources. To justify the integration of dynamic generation and demand parameters, a standard IEEE 33bus system is considered and the results show that the proposed optimization technique improves the system performance.